Ultimate Taaruf Guide for 2020

1. Be Clear and Straightforward During this phase, I advise you to not discuss about feelings too much. Instead, focus more on your core values, your vision in marriage, your preparations to become a spouse and a parent, and the minimum criteria you are looking for in a partner. Keep it focuses on those essential things. If you want to know if the person is interested, just ask a direct question like, “I am in the process of searching for a partner in marriage and I would like to do taaruf with you for that reason. Are you interested?” If

Start Imperfectly, Progress Imperfectly

I started a personal project I called the 4AM Club, where I would wake up super early to get some work done before my kids

July 2, 2020

You Always Have a Choice

“But I don’t have a choice. I’m stuck!” Being stuck is not the same as having no choices. Being stuck simply means that you are torn between

June 18, 2020

Moving On From the Pain of the Past

Don’t just numb the pain I received an unexpected call the other day from someone who is heartbroken from a relationship that ended badly. Such

May 27, 2020

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Ultimate Taaruf Guide for 2020

1. Be Clear and Straightforward During this phase, I advise you to not discuss about feelings too much. Instead, focus more on your core values,

July 9, 2020

Invest in Your Family

I chose my family. An easy choice to make, right? But it is not always easy. Although we intellectually know that when it comes to choosing

June 25, 2020

Do You Have an Ego Problem?

Kids can drive you crazy. That’s not their fault, because that is what is expected from children. Try to ask your parents about how you

June 10, 2020

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Do Not Underestimate People

Abdullah, the son of Imam Ahmad Hanbal, said that he used to frequently hear his father said, “May God have mercy upon Abu al-Haytham and

December 5, 2014

Relationship: I Think My Roommate Doesn’t Pray. What Should I Do?

Assalamualaikum. I actually don’t know how to start this but I really need someone to share this with. I am a student and I just

December 1, 2014

Relationship: How Do I Concentrate in My Solah (Prayer)?

Assalamualaikum. I actually don’t know how to start this because this is my first time emailing someone. I would say that I’m not very a

November 14, 2014

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Wake Up Feeling Inspired, Not Tired

“I love my job!” I realized that not everyone can say that, and I am truly grateful that I can. But I don’t want people to

May 20, 2020

I Have To Repeat My Semester, Again

I am in my Master’s journey for five years now. Currently, I am stuck in writing manuscript. And I think I want to give up.

June 18, 2019

Pursue a Degree Based on Interest, Not Job Prospect

“Is it okay to pursue a degree entirely based on interest without thinking thoroughly about what career will I get with that degree especially with

June 4, 2019

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Ultimate Taaruf Guide for 2020

Start Imperfectly, Progress Imperfectly

You Always Have a Choice

Moving On From the Pain of the Past

Ultimate Taaruf Guide for 2020

Invest in Your Family

Do You Have an Ego Problem?

Do Not Underestimate People

Relationship: I Think My Roommate Doesn’t Pray. What Should I Do?

Relationship: How Do I Concentrate in My Solah (Prayer)?

Wake Up Feeling Inspired, Not Tired

I Have To Repeat My Semester, Again

Pursue a Degree Based on Interest, Not Job Prospect

COVID-19 Exposes Us, In A Good Way

30-Day English Speaking Challenge 2019

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